I am an advocate for a company called Only Human.
There was a post they put up today on Facebook that has changed a few thoughts/self awareness in me. “Pro tip: think about the things you say online and to humans who you may think aren’t listening. Turn on more lights than you turn off. Listen more than you speak. And when you do talk, make sure you say it from your heart and not your ego.”
I am someone who tends to speak with my ego more often than not. I am someone who turns the lights out rather than even trying to flip one back on. I am someone with a short fuse and it seems to be getting shorter as the days go by, I need to re-evaluate myself and pay attention to the lights I’m not turning on. I am someone that needs to step outside of myself and see what others are looking at.
It’s good to learn and grow and change, change is natural and it is necessary to become a better version of myself. I need to work on being a good human to everyone again.
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I am an advocate for a company called Only Human, we are a group of people that is growing – we believe that no one is on a “list.” Whether you are Gay, Straight, Black, White or anything – that’s not what you are, you are simply HUMAN.
Many women and Men in that group have kids, they are raising their little humans with those same beliefs. It is something that I love to see and hear about, children have an innocence to them that is something we all used to possess. Now I’m not saying they are so innocent that they don’t see color – I’m saying they see it but they don’t have a bias to it. They simply see another child, another mom, another grandpa.
Children’s innocence is pure simplicity, they are putty that can be formed and molded into whoever they will become down the road. If you not only teach, but match your actions to the idea of equality and love rather than hatred; your child will follow suit. They are sponges and deserve a chance at a better life than we witness and see today. They deserve to know what is right and wrong, they deserve to learn when something is in-just. They can’t learn though, when you aren’t teaching them. They can’t learn when the world is already so divided. So be a good human and treat everyone as such; there are little humans that are relying on us.
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“Happily ever after”
Finding your forever, building a family, making life long memories; that’s the dream isn’t it?
I’ve been watching friend after friend get married, start a family and live all of the moments I’ve been dreaming of. Measuring my life up against anybody else is a waste of time because I will never be them and they will never be me.
I know “one day” it’ll happen and my time will come to have these moments in life but the process of waiting for it is annoying. Literally feel like I am trying to find forever in all the wrong places.
Until then though, I will continue to enjoy the baby snuggles and moments I get to share along side my friends with their little ones.
I will continue to travel and make memories that I can one day tell as stories to my children.
Y’all for decades, Disney has supported the LGBT community.
- They had their first “Gay Day’s” in 1991 – a week full of celebrating the LGBT community IN THE PARKS and making certain that Disney is a “safe place” for us.
- They provide health benefits to employees and their “Partners” since 1995.
- 2007 was the first “fairy tale wedding” that involved a same-sex couple.
- George Kaolgridis is the damn President of Disney and he is OPENLY GAY y’all.
So to all of you on Facebook throwing a fit over this photo that the Fairy tale wedding Facebook page posted…..
Ya’ll are showing so much hate from this photo of TWO PEOPLE, TWO HUMANS in love….. Just a reminder for you of other things also called an “abomination” in the Bible:
Egyptians eating with Hebrews;
having an image of another god in your house;
sacrificing your child;
hating thy neighbor;
having sex with your wife when she is menstruating;
taking your wife’s sister as a second wife;
and eating pork.
Banned likewise is wearing mixed-fabric clothing, interbreeding animals of different species, tattoos, mocking the blind by putting obstacles in their way, and trimming your beard.
As you can see, there is quite an assortment of ancient laws, some of which seem to make good sense and others of which the majority of Christians no longer keep. To claim one set as timeless truths while ignoring the others is hypocritical and goes against the grain of the text itself!
My final remarks…. y’all probably masturbate to Lesbian porn BUT that’s your sin to handle.
I think it’s time I let you go. It feels impossible to do because some part of me will be in love with you for the rest of my life. But the day dreaming, the running in place, replaying my memories… it’s not healthy. I’ve been holding on to the tiniest bit of hope that you’d come around but you haven’t and you aren’t going to. I had hopes and dreams of us lasting a lifetime and instead we lasted a season.
I’ve deleted you and your family from all social media, it only took me a year but it’s a step in the right direction. I’d delete your number but It’d be pointless since I know it by heart. I hate the way this feels, the “letting go” part but I hate the way I feel inside more. I can’t drive to the airport without remembering what it felt like to drive there hand in hand with you, to hug you goodbye and failing at doing my best not to cry. I remember what it felt like to have our time together and how genuinely happy you used to make me. Now I get angry, I should be able to make myself that happy, I should be enough for myself and yet here I am constantly angry, constantly upset and more often than not crying as I lay in bed trying to sleep.
Too many little things remind me of you, so I am left with no choice but to move on. I have to embrace the pain of letting you go, even when it makes me angry. I have to be stronger than the pain in order to survive and thrive again. It’s time that I do what I need to, to find my happiness again. They say happiness is an inside job, so bring on the soul searching.
This has been a little work in progress for a while and it’s finally ready. Back when I had first started this blog, we created a shirt that was the “Please Be Gay Bae” shirt. Well we have the socks up now that are literally a pot of tacos at the end of a rainbow.
For those that need a little explanation, it’s often joked about that “Lesbians” LOVE “Tacos”… I took that joke and ran with it, that’s how I like to try and look at everything in life. Whether someone is making fun of you directly or making jokes about something that means a lot to you personally. Laugh it off and create something from it, show them they can’t hurt you – only helping you become a better and more successful person.
The link will be at the bottom of this page, you can get your own pair through the Rage On website!
Also if you’d like to see the mystery woman behind the design – she has a lot of neat products on her page! darlyssadesigns.com
Link for the socks: GET YOUR Pot of Tacos Socks
When I think about “Happy Me” my mind races back to you.
It races back to our time together.. Our disagreements and all of our memories. “Happy Me” is playing in snow, laughing out loud.
My mind floods with pictures I have cherished since the beginning, I remember your kisses and your laugh. My mind gets stuck on your eyes, your smirk, you making fun of me. My mind gets stuck on you, for days at a time.
When I think of “Happy Me” I get sad because Happy Me, she is still head over heels in love with you. “Happy Me,” she’s not over you – how am I supposed to be “Happy Me” again when she isn’t happy anymore?